The dominatrix.
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It is daytime and I find myself in what feels like America the atmosphere and ambiance is fresh and alive and full of lots of emotional feelings a bit like the excitement one feels when one makes a fresh start or a new project. I am visiting or have been invited into the home of a couple who are apparent strangers but seem to be strikingly familiar somehow the man and woman are both very hospitable and welcoming.(I have to say that these two dream characters were extremely real, I’m not sure whether that was down to my own lucidness and concentration on them or something else).
Their pleasant house is in a peaceful suburban area which seems to be quite exclusive the location would seem to be New York but not in a large city anywhere. The weather is very fine, sunny and hot. I get the feeling that the couple is very comfortable and well off I also sense that they are both about 10 to 15 years older than me and both have astute, intelligent and intellectual personalities.
We both go into a contemporary modern lounge which is also slightly bohemian the man of the house pours me out a alcoholic drink and we all go to a sit down and chat. I sense that this couple likes living a lavish lifestyle and have some very extravagant habits. They don’t have any children and I sense that they would only get in the way of their carefree lifestyle if they did.
As we sit down I begin to pick up on a few of their characteristics, the man seems to be quite down to earth although he loves his material pleasures he’s very amiable and easy to talk to. His wife on the other hand seems to have some very deep and intense drives most of which are sexual, as I look at her I can see these powerful emotions in her eyes, she is a very intense, electric and domineering person I feel.
The man tells me that he’d like to invite me on a cruise on his yacht in the afternoon he’s going to sail down the sunny coastline to an American city or place whose name is very long and begins with the letter ‘M’ (Massachusetts?). As I sip on my drink in the heavy crystal glass I try to impress the man with my knowledge of ships and sailing (in reality I know very little if next to nothing of sailing which showed up in this dream).
I realise that I’m actually getting in a bit to deep when I start to try and describe how to sail a ship as the man obviously knows more than me, I wouldn’t say I was lying but what I am saying doesn’t really make sense so I decide to stop talking about how to sail a boat to avoid making myself sound like a fool in front of the man.
As we chat I start up a conversation with the couple and mention that I used to know an American guy who used to live in New York (a real life person who moved to live in England). I pose the question in the most naively and possibly foolish way possible without realising it “Perhaps you knew him, his nickname was Boots?”
As my lucidity rises I consciously become aware of how foolish that question must have sounded as there must be millions of people in New York and how would they just happen to know this one man. This question actually seems irrelevant anyhow as the more I concentrate on the man I see that he is actually my old American friend, it’s an amazing realisation and revelation.
Before we all leave to spend the afternoon on the yacht the woman wants us all to go to their bedroom, she wants to have sex with me whilst her husband watches. I actually feel quite reluctant to do this, she is quite attractive but her demeanour is too intense for me and we both seem to be on different levels and have differing mindsets. There seems to be some kind of vague bargaining going on here, its not so apparent but I get the feeling that if I don’t give into the woman’s wishes then I won’t get to go on the yacht with her husband.
We all go to their bedroom (which already has the vague feeling of a classy luxury wooden cabin of a yacht about it). I lie down undressed on my back on a large bed and the woman climbs on top of me straddling my waist whilst her husband sits quietly watching on the end of the bed.
The woman starts to have sex with me in a most forceful way which I don’t actually find very pleasurable she seems to have taken on the semblance of a wild animal something like a leopard. I look into her fiery eyes and see that she no longer looks human but has all the raw qualities of a wild beast, her only desire now is to dominate and get what she wants which is sexual satisfaction.
As the woman becomes more energetic and her movements more wild the sex becomes actually quite painful for me as she forces back down onto me in a very hard aggressive way (this really was a painful experience as it felt like she might snap my penis off the way she was being so aggressive). Something about the sexual experience stirs strong feelings in me although I’m not really enjoying this experience and try to hold back from coming but the woman won’t stop so eventually I do climax (only in the dream).
I find the woman’s rawness and aggression quite off putting and almost scary, her husband remains sat silently on the bed watching as we had sex. I also note that the woman is perspiring a lot due to her constant exertions, its something I noticed when I first saw her too, she seems to be constantly in this frenetically energetic state.
As the woman got what she wanted it looks like I will now be going on the yacht with them. I get the feeling that the couple’s lives revolve around the pursuit of pure pleasure and in the woman’s case it is domination which gives her the greatest pleasure. Surprisingly it doesn’t actually feel like such a negative or bad thing and I quite like the couple and admire them in a certain kind of way even though the woman is a really extreme character.
