This dream has been viewed 4989 times.It is evening and I am in a bedroom with a woman who I am having an affair with, I have strong mixed feelings of freedom and guilt, we are having sex and I am not using any protection, there are one or two other people present.
As we make love I panic and insist on using a condom, the woman does not want to use any protection, so as a compromise she takes one and ties it in a knot (halfway), it soon becomes clear that this compromise is impractical.
I still feel uncomfortable about the condom situation so we pause and I go to the bathroom, inside the bathroom I see a bidet that is full of a large pile of socks that have been left to soak, I unwrap another condom but find that it is much too large.
Later in the daytime I find myself in a large field of crops, the weather is very fine and I see that the woman who I am having an affair with is driving a tractor and is harvesting the crops that are growing in the field, I bring some baskets over to her so that we have something to collect the crop in.
I then have a false awakening (I didn’t realise this at the time) and find myself at work, I tell my wife and a colleague about the above dream, or they have already been informed about the affair by telephone, but I don’t tell them who the woman I am having an affair with is, they try to guess her name and they tell me that she is called (or is from) “Manchester”.
I then continue the dream story, I am now walking about outside with my wife who is aware of my affair she is very angry but stays with me, we walk along together but we don’t speak, none of her family or friends are talking with me, I feel disowned.
We stop at a self-service restaurant where she smashes a plate on the floor in anger as a cause of the whole situation I have created, I feel very empty at this point and can’t find any words to say to my wife.
We then carry on walking into a hilly and forested countryside where I see a large grizzly bear that I am very cautious of, I am aware that this area isn’t the bear’s natural habitat but that its owner has brought it here from somewhere else.
Later at the end of the day I find myself back at home at a grand mansion (the grandeur and size surprises me very slightly), the building has a slightly empty, cold or deserted feel to it though, there is a large fireplace which has some logs slowly burning on it.
I pick up the glowing logs from out of the fire and hurry to carefully carry them outside one by one, I feel impelled to do this but am not sure why, perhaps it is because I feel that some of the embers from the fire and logs will land outside of the hearth and cause a fire resulting in the house being burnt down.
Additional Comments:As a side note, I am not currently having an affair and have never been unfaithful.
I had the vague realisation that as I was carrying the glowing logs from the fire to outside that normally they should be burning my hands but I wasn't feeling any pain.